Have Fun With It

So, I was writing to a gentlemen just this evening-  and, it seems he has a few lady followers who differ in a wide age range.  While talking,  or I should say writing back and forth, I mentioned some things I thought went with different ages or age groups, then it dawned on me.. I stopped right in my tracks and made an about turn almost.  

It seemed to me that we are so taken up with the do's and don't and the rights and wrongs, that we forget we are gloriously single.. we are single because we can have fun with life in a much different way than we can if we are married.. not that marriage isn't desireable.. but trying to get there before it's time isn't a wise idea, I don't think..

So, I simply told him to enjoy himself in all of his choosing.  That doesn't mean I'm advocating anyone go out and have no responsibility with their love life as a single.. but it does mean, we singles have a whole world of opportunity laying before us.. and those opportunities sparkle with possibility.. so, in all of this, getting back to the real reason for Fantasy Moves Dating- Fantascapes, we want to love our place in life and enjoy every second of meeting new and interesting people- other singles.. and interact with joy and bounce and bubbly enthusiasm.   We are in a position to have a blast while we explore our options.  

So, have fun with it, enjoy it, love it, and shine in it.. be creative-  remember, we control the remote control for now!  

Some fun things women love.

Sitting on a man's lap.  Running her fingers through his hair or his mustasche.  Touching his ear lobes.  Rubbing his feet.  Holding her head close to his while he's talking.  Sitting on the floor between his legs and running her hands on his legs under his jeans..  , we love it!  

Fantasy Moves Dating- Fantascapes, we want to help bring all of your dreams alive in dating and living the single life.  We don't believe being single is a curse to humanity.. we believe it has some very awesome features to be desired.  We believe the single life can give us time to reflect on the things that matter the most to us- and then when we finally get those things, they are ours for the rest of our lives.. 

Lets Not Say "I Love You" too soon-  

Feelings can sometimes misguide us if we aren't carefull.  Saying "I Love You" too soon to someone we hardly know and yet, for some strange reason, feel intensity for, doesn't mean we just jump off the cliff into the love abiss.  Our first love is truth to our own hearts.  It's a selfless- self love that gives us every reason to be carefull with our words and actions, even our attitudes. 

Lets say what we genuinly feel, yes.. but lets first determine what we genuinly feel.  I call an endless stream of emotion that can't be subsided in ways of real living is going off into the love abiss.. this is my opinion, but, I've been there too.  And, in this love abiss, there is no bottom.  Fantasy Moves Dating- Fantascapes wants to put real dreams to real words and real people in real situations that make sense.  We want to do this personally, and we want to help you do this also.  

We genuinly want you to enjoy being single, enjoy dating, enjoy each other, but enjoy in real-life workable situations.  We don't charge for admission, this is not a site to join, this is a site to enjoy and call on us if you want us or need us in any way.  

Our Motto in word is.. "Taking out the drama and put in the dramatic", and our motto song is by Olivia Newton-John, "Magic"..