Cool Rider-  

Our cool rider may not match the description of the song in Grease 2, but for sure, all women want one of their liking and personal taste.  I've used this video a lot on this site, because it's so true.. we women and men need to know what it is we want and stay with what we want.. but that want isn't a selfish/childish grab and run.. it's  process.  It's a life-experience in knowing what our essential self is telling us.  It's a matter of listening and paying attention of our own cravings and desires as far as genuine love is involved.  

Outside of genuine love, I'd say that craving would be a sort of worthless avenue to want to travel.. but, when inside the boundaries of genuine love.. oh let's go.  It's a road worth traveling.  

And then ther is the right way of getting those cravings and desires.. it's in the presentation of who we are and what we are about and asking for it without shame or dependence on any one else's thought about what we want and don't want.. even need or don't need.  It's our own desire; our own dream; and our own reach out into a space and time we've probably never been. 

My Heart Is Set On You... 

There is absolutely nothing wrong with telling a man we need him to "Keep Us Satisfied"..  women need satisfaction just as equally as our men do.. in all ways.  

Trughfully, I believe men would love us to be able to reach out and tell them what we need and desire..  I think they would be more than happy to help us find them too.. 

Here It Is, Truth Time.. Defining What We Want And Asking For That Exact Thing.. no compromise!  

What is it we are asking for?  For me, I'd reveal my love ticks.. what makes me tick as a woman before asking a man to fulfill my dreams and deisres.. I'd let him know I want an amorous man or at least a man who allows me to be an amorous lover..   I'm usually a business lady at heart.  I love my business time.  I'm more of a serious personality in general.. but when it comes to love; I turn into some kind of amorous and fun-loving woman.  Men bring that part of me out when I am really taken with them... 

I'd want to be able to kiss passionately one minute and just plain grab and kiss the next.. things like that.. I think you get the jest of what I'm saying.  Let your man date know what makes you tick as a lover woman or vise versa.. if your a man, tell her what makes your heart pump and brings you to a boil.. spell it out in such a way that it's real and yet not so revealing it's real yet.. does this  make sense?  

Being a single star in an entire galaxie for which there are endless and boundless amounts of variations and differences, can be daunting at the very least.  However, realizing, that being a single shooting star is the most amazing and spectacular event in that galaxie at any given moment is our bright and shinny moment of personal success.  

  Yes, there are solar eclipse happenings, there's the milky way to gaze into, and even discoveries not known to the human mind yet.. but we're there, we're known, and we can be seen and our essense in that vast galaxie of light is our possibility! 

We all want, need, desire, long for, and caress love in our minds and hearts-  when our hearts and souls are soft and alive to life..

Rethinking, Re-entering, Re-gaining, -  Our Personal Style In Our NEW dating world.  And, that new world for some of us, is this romantic dating for which our inner needs and wants; our desires are met- and we are in turn meeting our partners needs, wants, desires, and dreams.. 

I just love this guy.. ok, so women over 40?  Well, I'm already 61 and ready for life and love all over again.. Not all of us want to be married again.. but we all want our loveing and we all want our desires and dreams no matter how old we are when we get back into this romantic world of love.  So, I agree.  And, on this website I've already said it.. It's time now.. it's time when you or I inwardly know it's time.. (and, I have a feeling when we know it's time within us, someone is waiting for us.. somewhere out there)  

We all need to be comfortable with "Asking" 

So, If we all have to go back to school, lets go-  I'm in for it!  Nothing more exciting than anticipation and the exciting anticipation of meeting that "Cool Rider" in our lives.. that man above all men who takes us into our love galaxy.. 

Becoming Open To Discovery-  is the key that unlocks the door to realizing a dream. 

So, if you read the side post about fear of discovery; or fear of being discovered, you'll know why I've chosen to post 'Such A Night"..   For me, the night I spent with my 'fantasy date', really was.. 'such a night'.. a night I'll never forget.  

There is power in asking the question-  I called my post- "One Romantic Night".. thre were over 350 replies and I chose to talk to several different gentlemen before making a final decision for a date.. I believe that decision worked out just as it should have.. and I learned the power of asking.. 

What else did I learn?  I learned that principle of drama..  taking out all of the drama, turning face-to-face with the male counterpart of womanhood, and simply saying what I desired from the heart.. with a dramatic emphesis on romance.. I was able to realize that dream.. what a dream come true.